big jay was the most loving man ive ever met he could to some pepole be scary because of his huge size but every body that knew jay knew he was a gentle a giant,he was a very popular guy every where we went he knew some body and everybody he knew loved him not as much as i do he was my life we never spent much time apart in all the years we where together but we liked it that jay was at his happiest when he was with me and his 4 sons thats all jay wantd and needed in life was just us his own little family,jay was an amazing father bit to soft at times but thats just jay he adored his sons and they adored him he spent what ever time he didnt with me with his boys playing on the ps3 or watching dvds thats what he loved to do and download music for me and him to listen to when the boys went to bed,he passd very suddenly 6 weeks and 2 days ago it is the most tragic thing ever god has took away my life but he will be with his mum who he loved very much and she will look after him for me untill we meet again x